You shouldn’t become other expectations; but rather be exactly who we wish to be. Behind the who you are to the world lies the real persona, buried under all the trappings that reality has piled upon you from the moment of birth.
Find your true self
In order to create the image of physical self; your true self is partially hidden or even lost under the persona that you have become. Finding that true self under all the disguises that have been created by yourself and others is the best way to start to become what you really are; the spiritual you that is waiting behind the mask of reality you exhibit to the world around. Finding within who you truly are will allow you to know your true intentions, thus enabling the potential to start creating the life best intended to suit you desires.
It is how you think of yourself that determines so very much; once you find the desire of what you truly wish to be then it become possible to start bringing forth that personality. Within you is the blueprint of the real you, who you actually are. By searching deep inside yourself it becomes possible to find who you actually are, then through your creative powers take what is then mould that into what you wish reality to become.